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Monday 10 March 2014

Can I Come Back To The Church?

“From the days of your fathers you have turned aside from my statutes and have not kept them. Return to me, and I will return to you, says the Lord of hosts. But you say, ‘How shall we return?’”
(Malachi 3:7)


Sometimes events in our lives overtake us and, if we let them, they can drive a wedge between us and God. This can lead to rejection of God and of His church. There are many reasons why this happens to people – it could be the breakdown of a relationship, bereavement or some other life changing event. A feeling of loss and disappointment is often very hard to bear and sometimes it is easier to blame God than it is to look inwards. There can be a feeling of anger directed at God, a “Why me?” questioning of events.


Thankfully, even if we believe it is the end of our relationship with God, there is never a point at which He gives up on us. That’s how good He is. No matter how much anger, resentment or blame we throw in His direction, He simply accepts it and loves us anyway.

“I spread out my hands all the day to a rebellious people, who walk in a way that is not good, following their own devices.”
(Isaiah 65:2)

God is loving, kind and patient. He will never force us to turn back to Him, but he does wait with open arms in anticipation of the day when we do. He won’t turn us away, no matter what we have done, no matter what sins we have committed, so long as we ask for His forgiveness and turn back to Christ.

“Remember therefore from where you have fallen; repent, and do the works you did at first. If not, I will come to you and remove your lampstand from its place, unless you repent.”
(Revelation 2:5)

If you have had a strong faith, but turned away due to doubts, fear or temptation, then you are in some quite remarkable biblical company. God has shown us through His word that even the strongest, or seemingly most faithful, can fall away when faced with life’s challenges. There have been several ‘titans’ of the Bible who, when tested or tempted, failed to step up to the mark.

King David

David sinned when he was tempted by the beauty of Bathsheba – so much so that he ended up causing the death of her husband Uriah. Yet God forgave David because he truly repented of his sin:

Then David said to Nathan, ‘I have sinned against the Lord. Nathan replied, ‘The Lord has taken away your sin. You are not going to die.”
(2 Samuel 12:13)

David honestly admitted his wrongdoing, but he also knew that he could not go it alone. Neither can we. To live a Christ-like life we need the Holy Spirit within us, as accepting the Holy Spirit gives us the strength, and demonstrates a submission of our own desires, that we need in order to avoid sin. When returning to God we need to make sure that we are once more opening up our hearts:

“Restore to me the joy of your salvation and grant me a willing spirit, to sustain me.”
(Psalm 51:12)

Peter

Peter, one of the original disciples who lived in the presence of Jesus, seemed like he could never be a candidate for rejecting the Lord, but he did. Jesus even told Peter that it would happen. The Bible shows us that anyone can sin, even if the warning signs are there, due to our weaknesses and human frailty. It shows that even the strongest, most faithful and dedicated to Christ have the potential to fall:

“Then they seized him and led him away, bringing him into the high priest's house, and Peter was following at a distance. And when they had kindled a fire in the middle of the courtyard and sat down together, Peter sat down among them. Then a servant girl, seeing him as he sat in the light and looking closely at him, said, “This man also was with him.” But he denied it, saying, “Woman, I do not know him.” And a little later someone else saw him and said, “You also are one of them.” But Peter said, “Man, I am not.” And after an interval of about an hour still another insisted, saying, “Certainly this man also was with him, for he too is a Galilean.” But Peter said, “Man, I do not know what you are talking about.” And immediately, while he was still speaking, the rooster crowed. And the Lord turned and looked at Peter. And Peter remembered the saying of the Lord, how he had said to him, “Before the rooster crows today, you will deny me three times.” And he went out and wept bitterly.”
(Luke 22:54-62)

Fear got the better of Peter and this led to his denials of Jesus. Yet what happened to Peter after this? Did he fall further away? Did God close the doors to the kingdom on Peter? In fact Peter sought forgiveness, was even stronger in his faith than ever before, preached the word of the Lord throughout the rest of his life and is part of the foundation of the modern Christian church.

The Prodigal Son

An example Jesus gives of God’s unending capacity for the forgiveness of sin, when people turn away from Him, is that of the prodigal son. This was a young man who was a son in his father's house – a metaphor for having faith in God. The son went off taking his inheritance and proceeded to live a sinful life dedicated to pleasures of the flesh. This was all well and good while he was rich, but his new friends soon deserted him when he had spent the lot. Again this is a metaphor – the pleasures of the flesh are short-lived and don’t bring true and lasting fulfilment.

After many struggles and living in poverty, the son realised he was better off at home and returned – a metaphor for repentance and turning back to Christ. Notice that his father (a metaphor for God) welcomed him back before he even asked to be just a servant in the house. The prodigal was welcomed back as a son. This shows that, despite our sins and turning away from God, when we return we will be clean again. God is a loving father and forgives us totally.

“If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”
(1 John 1:9)


If you know someone who has turned away from God, pray for them, support them and love them, but remember to always keep strong in your own commitment to Christ.

“Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness. Keep watch on yourself, lest you too be tempted.”
(Galatians 6:1)

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